If you’re always chasing validation and doing what you think others expect of you then you’re not really getting to live your life properly and share the real you. That’s no way to live.
Build yourself up so that you value your opinion above everybody’s else’s. That will free you to be yourself regardless of what others think. If you need some help building yourself up check out the link in my bio.

I agree with this, it is so important that we don’t waste time or energy trying to seek validation from those who don’t really matter.
Thanks for the comment Victoria, it’s a mistake we all fall into at some point so definitely a good lesson learn 👍
My anxiety ruins everything, one day I’ll hopefully be able to follow the advice here!
It will get better pal, stick with us and you’ll master your anxiety the same way we did ❤️ The first step is taking responsibility for what you program into your mind.
Thank you 😊