As parents we constantly try to direct our kids on what’s right and wrong, what they should do and what they shouldn’t but just saying it isn’t enough, especially if you’re actions don’t match up to what you’re trying to teach them. Kids will always follow our example, they will do what we do rather… Read More Example Not Advice
You have full responsibility for the story running in your head. Whether you choose to see yourself as the victim, hero, main star or a supporting role of the story is entirely up to you. If you’re seeing yourself as the victim in your mind’s story you urgently need to change that to the hero… Read More Victim or Hero
You may as well aim high and nearly get there than aim low and hit it. Check your goals and make sure they are big enough. #BestYouProject #BYP #BYPcoaching #ScottyJHam #ScottJ #Scottish #Writer #Author #Speaker #MindsetMentor #MindsetMagic #SJHMindset #happiness #confidence #success #Scotland #Glasgow #Ayrshire #Darvel #Attitude #lifechoices #Believe #PositiveAttitude #PositiveMindset #MaximisingPotential #achmelvichbeach #Sutherland
For those that need to hear this. You will never be everybody’s cup of tea, you trying to impress the ones that don’t care will actually only annoy them more. So accept this and accept that whether they “get” you or not, in the greater scheme of things that doesn’t really matter. What matters is… Read More Others Opinions
If you need one thought when you’re starting each day then this is it. You’re better than mediocre, don’t sell yourself short. Now go out there and show that to the world! 🌍♥️ #BestYouProject #BYP #BYPcoaching #ScottyJHam #ScottJ #Scottish #Writer #Author #Speaker #MindsetMentor #MindsetMagic #SJHMindset #Scotland #Glasgow #Darvel #lifechoices #PositiveAttitude #PositiveMindset #castle #loch #EileanDonanCastle #LochAlsh… Read More You’re Better Than That
When you’re not feeling particularly confident it’s very easy to think everybody is talking negatively about you but I’m pretty sure there’s somebody out there batting for you even in the hardest times. You’d probably be surprised by who it is that sticks up for you when others are sticking the knife in. There’s a… Read More You Never Know
We’re not all meant to be the same. There is no pride, happiness or respect in living in a world of clones or Yes Men. Please don’t dim your light or hide the real you just to fit in. You will never win if you do, they’ll always find something else about you that they… Read More Don’t Dim Your Light
Everybody makes mistakes, don’t let yours define who you are. We live, we learn and we move on. Just because you’ve had, or you’re having, one bad chapter it doesn’t mean your story can’t be a successful one. Dream big and keep making mistakes til you get there. #BestYouProject #byp #bypcoaching #ScottyJHam #Scottish #Writer #Author… Read More Next Chapter Please
I think it shows real strength and real character when a person gravitates away from drama and away from that feeling of needing to impress others. It certainly impresses me more than someone that constantly seeks validation. Maybe it’s intelligence or maybe it’s just a higher level of self worth that they make the best… Read More Bye Bye Drama
Sometimes you just need to make the leap of faith. You might feel scared but if your gut is telling you it’s the right move then you need to do everything you can to push yourself past that fear. Close your eyes and push the button, if that’s what it takes. Take a deep breath… Read More Feel The Fear
