Can you picture all those confident and happy people you see achieving great things, making big progress, looking in control? Well here is what they have that others don’t: A firm grasp of who they are and what they are capable of A solid understanding and remembrance of what they have accomplished so far A… Read More 3 Part Confidence Building
Dealing with anxiety is a challenge so many of us face at one time or another. The main driver of anxiety as most of us may already know, is overthinking. Panicking about what other people are thinking or worrying about what “might” happen in the future. The thing is all those things you worry about,… Read More Kill Your Anxiety
Social media is a very fickle and fake place, people only share what they want you to see. Most people want everyone to think their life is amazing and to a lot of you it might look like their life is somehow better than yours. Please remember that what is shared on Social Media is… Read More Beware of the Social Media Illusion
If you feel like you really wish you could just pack up all your worries, anxieties and insecurities and dump them off a bridge somewhere well now is the time to come and join me and give the “F*ck It” philosophy a go. Maybe it’s because I am getting on a bit now (I mean… Read More The F*** It Philosophy
You know all those people, the ones that you’re worrying about what they think about what you’re doing, how you are acting, what you’re wearing or how you’re living your life’? … Well most of them don’t care about any of those things, in truth probably around 90% aren’t even really paying attention to what you’re doing.… Read More The New Priority
The only thing standing between you and the things you want to do is either fear, effort levels or the story you tell yourself. Time to either push yourself past the fear, up your effort levels or change the story! #effort #brave #story #lifechoices #positiveattitude #belief #dreams #goals #otherpeople #goforit #startnow #sjhmindset #bestyouproject #coaching #Scottish… Read More The Things You Want To Do
Recently while I was watching the witty “8 out of 10 Cats Does Countdown” show Johnny Vegas read out a poem (in what is meant to be a funny segment) which actually turned out to be a heartfelt, touching poem and in it at one point he notes how his child self would see him… Read More What Would Your Younger Self Think?
Some people will treat you as an equal and with respect, others will look down on you and treat you like your opinion is worth less than theirs or others. Who you spend time with, make the effort to see and care about their opinion has an impact on how much you value yourself. By… Read More Understanding Self-Worth
Here’s 2 simple fun techniques that will help create a family full of good finders. They can be included in a simple daily ritual you do with your kids at bedtime, bath time, while eating dinner or whenever you guys can fit it in to your day. These are tried and tested daily habits that… Read More Family Mindset Magic
Back in February I ran a Positive Mindset Workshop in Darvel where I shared my Positive Mindset Workbook. Only a couple of people turned up but I am delighted to report back that a few weeks ago one of the attendees got in touch to tell me that thanks to this Workbook she has built… Read More The Impact of the SJH Mindset Workbook
