Never underestimate how fortunate you are that some good people are actively making an effort to stay involved in your life. Sometimes we get so hung up on those that don’t care, that we forget those amazing people that do. #BestYouProject #BYP #BYPcoaching #ScottyJHam #ScottJ #Scottish #Writer #Author #Speaker #MindsetMentor #MindsetMagic #SJHMindset #happiness #confidence #success… Read More Making The Effort
If you find certain people consistently treat you in an unacceptable manner I’m sad to say that you have allowed that to happen. It’s not your choice that they treat you this way but it is your choice to accept this treatment. You either accept it or stand up for yourself or at the very… Read More Setting Standards
You need your own approval and acceptance much, much more than you need anybody else’s. Remember that. Without your own acceptance, the approval and validation of any other person in the world will have little impact on your self-esteem or self -worth. Their approval wont bring you happiness unless you already have a healthy self-image… Read More You Need You
You have full responsibility for the story running in your head. Whether you choose to see yourself as the victim, hero, main star or a supporting role of the story is entirely up to you. If you’re seeing yourself as the victim in your mind’s story you urgently need to change that to the hero… Read More Victim or Hero
For those that need to hear this. You will never be everybody’s cup of tea, you trying to impress the ones that don’t care will actually only annoy them more. So accept this and accept that whether they “get” you or not, in the greater scheme of things that doesn’t really matter. What matters is… Read More Others Opinions
When you’re not feeling particularly confident it’s very easy to think everybody is talking negatively about you but I’m pretty sure there’s somebody out there batting for you even in the hardest times. You’d probably be surprised by who it is that sticks up for you when others are sticking the knife in. There’s a… Read More You Never Know
If you’re always chasing validation and doing what you think others expect of you then you’re not really getting to live your life properly and share the real you. That’s no way to live. Build yourself up so that you value your opinion above everybody’s else’s. That will free you to be yourself regardless of… Read More Is Your Life Really Yours?
We all post on FB or Instagram etc and usually it’s just innocently sharing a great experience but when it gets to the point that you’re posting stuff with the sole purpose of impressing other people it’s time to stop and have a think. It’s a sure sign of insecurities if you NEED people to… Read More Who You Impressing?
Here’s why I decided to start embracing my inner-goofball and why I think you should too. My inner-goofball, or inner-kid, or whatever you want to call it … is really all about fun. It’s the side of me that is all about being carefree and cheerful regardless of what other people think. Like at this… Read More Why I Embrace My Inner-Goofball
Do you ever feel like you are pandering to other people or watching what you say because you’re worried about being put down or teased over it? Or constantly thinking of what other people think about? This post might help you get over these fears. Here’s the message in a nut shell – if you… Read More Tips Towards a Healthy Self-Image