Even when you don’t feel confident you can at least choose to ACT confident. There’s a huge chance that nobody will even notice the difference! You can choose to feel scared, you can choose to feel overwhelmed or you can stop yourself and decide to at the very least ACT like you’re confident. Do this… Read More Choose Confidence
And we’re back!! After a long hiatus focusing on work I’m back with the odd friendly post or short musing. Today’s – Remember how far you’ve come. While you’re busy doubting yourself there are others out there blown away by how far you’ve already come. Be proud of the progress! #BestYouProject #BYP #BYPcoaching #ScottyJHam #ScottJ… Read More Be Proud of the Progress
If you’re always the one feeding a friendship, making the first call or sending the first text it might serve you well to see if it would still keep going without you instigating. As you head into the new year why not put your energy into two way friendships, the ones that want to know… Read More Be a Priority
Everything you do should be to level yourself up and create the life you want, make sure that when you’re doing this that you are building a life you enjoy… not just tolerate to pay your bills. If you constantly need a holiday to escape your usual life then you must not have set up… Read More Create A Life You Love
Nobody starts off amazing at anything, you must allow yourself to be a beginner. If there’s something you really want to be good at put in the time and effort to master it. Cut yourself a break, allow yourself to be rubbish at the start but promise yourself that if it’s something that matters to… Read More Be A Beginner
It’s very easy to take out your bad moods on those that love you the most but thats the worst thing you can do. Firstly, they don’t deserve it and secondly your actively pushing away the ones that would actually be there for you and even help you out your mood. Next time you catch… Read More Manage Your Moods
Before you get yourself worked up wondering why someone might dislike you, ask yourself why it matters so much … that’s where the problem lies. Once you figure that out and work on that, build your confidence and self image up, you’ll stop caring who likes you and who doesn’t. You’ll like yourself and that’s… Read More Why Does It Matter
A tough message for some people to hear as it’s always easier to blame somebody else but the only way to start improving your own life and your own happiness levels is to start taking responsibility for exactly where you are in life. That means stop blaming others for your current situation and realise you… Read More Stop The Blame Game
If there is something in your life that sets you alight and excites you any time you think about it you need to go after it. This is mine – to become a best selling author, help thousands of people all over the world and be asked to deliver a TEDx Talk. Any time people… Read More Follow Your Passion
If you keep repeating the same mistakes in life they aren’t actually mistakes, they are bad decisions. Whether that be going back with an old partner that treats you badly, staying in a friend circle where you’re made to feel inferior or even buying cheap instead of quality, those are all choices. Instead of telling… Read More The Same Mistake
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