Never underestimate how fortunate you are that some good people are actively making an effort to stay involved in your life. Sometimes we get so hung up on those that don’t care, that we forget those amazing people that do. #BestYouProject #BYP #BYPcoaching #ScottyJHam #ScottJ #Scottish #Writer #Author #Speaker #MindsetMentor #MindsetMagic #SJHMindset #happiness #confidence #success… Read More Making The Effort
Don’t stop doing something you love just because you think others will judge you for it. It’s your happiness and it’s your life, if they don’t like you doing something you enjoy then that’s their problem, not yours. Don’t let their opinion embarrass you into giving up anything that brings you a lot of fun… Read More If It Makes You Happy
You need your own approval and acceptance much, much more than you need anybody else’s. Remember that. Without your own acceptance, the approval and validation of any other person in the world will have little impact on your self-esteem or self -worth. Their approval wont bring you happiness unless you already have a healthy self-image… Read More You Need You
We’re not all meant to be the same. There is no pride, happiness or respect in living in a world of clones or Yes Men. Please don’t dim your light or hide the real you just to fit in. You will never win if you do, they’ll always find something else about you that they… Read More Don’t Dim Your Light
Some people have what you would consider “everything you could ever want” and are still miserable because they still want more. If you’re not grateful and happy with what you already have then you won’t be happy and grateful for anything else you get. If you struggle with your mood or feel like you’re lacking… Read More All You Have
Have you ever caught yourself saying “He pure loves himself!” … and we say that like it’s a bad thing. How ridiculous is that? It’s maybe a UK thing, who knows. It’s definitely a Scottish thing because I’ve said it myself in the past about people out of utter ignorance. It’s just crazy that if… Read More How Dare You!
We all post on FB or Instagram etc and usually it’s just innocently sharing a great experience but when it gets to the point that you’re posting stuff with the sole purpose of impressing other people it’s time to stop and have a think. It’s a sure sign of insecurities if you NEED people to… Read More Who You Impressing?
When other people treat you badly you need to realise that they have the issue, not you. As soon as you consider this and have a think about what might cause this acting out your anger will soon turn to pity. Happy people don’t go around tearing other people down, there’s always something causing this.… Read More Empathy Over Anger
Can you picture all those confident and happy people you see achieving great things, making big progress, looking in control? Well here is what they have that others don’t: A firm grasp of who they are and what they are capable of A solid understanding and remembrance of what they have accomplished so far A… Read More 3 Part Confidence Building
In a world where the media glorify the negative and hate spreads quicker than love remember that it’s the simple things that matter. Here’s a video collage of military people surprising their loved ones at Christmas that will remind you of what matters most. If this doesn’t melt your heart then I don’t know what… Read More When the World Seems Dark, Watch This!