Even when you don’t feel confident you can at least choose to ACT confident. There’s a huge chance that nobody will even notice the difference! You can choose to feel scared, you can choose to feel overwhelmed or you can stop yourself and decide to at the very least ACT like you’re confident. Do this… Read More Choose Confidence
When you build yourself up enough you will stop looking for validation or approval from others because you’ll be getting more than enough of that from yourself. You’ll never get enough validation from other people so do whatever it takes to get it from yourself. Check out our website resources page for all the tips… Read More People Like Us
If you find certain people consistently treat you in an unacceptable manner I’m sad to say that you have allowed that to happen. It’s not your choice that they treat you this way but it is your choice to accept this treatment. You either accept it or stand up for yourself or at the very… Read More Setting Standards
We’re not all meant to be the same. There is no pride, happiness or respect in living in a world of clones or Yes Men. Please don’t dim your light or hide the real you just to fit in. You will never win if you do, they’ll always find something else about you that they… Read More Don’t Dim Your Light
Have you ever caught yourself saying “He pure loves himself!” … and we say that like it’s a bad thing. How ridiculous is that? It’s maybe a UK thing, who knows. It’s definitely a Scottish thing because I’ve said it myself in the past about people out of utter ignorance. It’s just crazy that if… Read More How Dare You!
We all post on FB or Instagram etc and usually it’s just innocently sharing a great experience but when it gets to the point that you’re posting stuff with the sole purpose of impressing other people it’s time to stop and have a think. It’s a sure sign of insecurities if you NEED people to… Read More Who You Impressing?
Can you picture all those confident and happy people you see achieving great things, making big progress, looking in control? Well here is what they have that others don’t: A firm grasp of who they are and what they are capable of A solid understanding and remembrance of what they have accomplished so far A… Read More 3 Part Confidence Building
Anybody that knows me well will know that I love Suits so here’s a little wisdom from the main man himself Harvey Specter mixed in with some advice from another guy that likes wearing suits, me 😁 Remember that guy that gave up? Yeah, neither does anybody else! – Harvey Specter Fancy checking out the… Read More The Guy That Gave Up
If you feel like you really wish you could just pack up all your worries, anxieties and insecurities and dump them off a bridge somewhere well now is the time to give the “F*ck It” philosophy a go. Maybe it’s because I am getting on a bit now but I find myself giving less and… Read More The F*** It Philosophy
Throughout my working life I have strived to learn what makes a person successful in their career. I wanted to identify the key characteristics that determine whether you climb the ladder or stay where you are. I think what I have found is worth sharing so here it is, for those interested, a list of… Read More Top 10 Tips For A Successful Career