You have full responsibility for the story running in your head. Whether you choose to see yourself as the victim, hero, main star or a supporting role of the story is entirely up to you. If you’re seeing yourself as the victim in your mind’s story you urgently need to change that to the hero… Read More Victim or Hero
For those that need to hear this. You will never be everybody’s cup of tea, you trying to impress the ones that don’t care will actually only annoy them more. So accept this and accept that whether they “get” you or not, in the greater scheme of things that doesn’t really matter. What matters is… Read More Others Opinions
When you’re not feeling particularly confident it’s very easy to think everybody is talking negatively about you but I’m pretty sure there’s somebody out there batting for you even in the hardest times. You’d probably be surprised by who it is that sticks up for you when others are sticking the knife in. There’s a… Read More You Never Know
Everybody makes mistakes, don’t let yours define who you are. We live, we learn and we move on. Just because you’ve had, or you’re having, one bad chapter it doesn’t mean your story can’t be a successful one. Dream big and keep making mistakes til you get there. #BestYouProject #byp #bypcoaching #ScottyJHam #Scottish #Writer #Author… Read More Next Chapter Please
What would you do if you knew you only had a certain amount of time left? It’s something we never think about but one day you’ll run out of tomorrow’s, make sure when that day comes you’ve lived the life you really wanted to. #bestyouproject #life #death #time #perspective #attitude #onelife #happiness #dreams #goals #scottyjham… Read More But What If
You know all those people, the ones that you’re worrying about what they think about what you’re doing, how you are acting, what you’re wearing or how you’re living your life’? … Well most of them don’t care about any of those things, in truth probably around 90% aren’t even really paying attention to what you’re doing.… Read More The New Priority
Inspired by a wonderful article in the Huffington Post, I started thinking about the world we live in today and how messed up things really can become if we get caught up in the highlights reel everyone shares on social media. We live in a time where so many people constantly look at others lives… Read More The Other Side – It’s Not Always What It Seems!