Imagine the time has come and everyone you love and know has got together to write your eulogy, what would you like to be read out to summarise your life if you had managed to live your life to the full? This might sound a bit morbid or a bit dark but if you’ve got… Read More How Do YOU Want To Be Remembered?
I strongly believe that the time has come to give mental health a higher priority in Education. Let’s teach our young ones and our teenagers to understand how their mind works and let’s give them tools to help keep their mind healthy. If they have the foundation and tools to maintain a healthy self image,… Read More Education Priorities Need To Change
Here’s a 2 week challenge for anyone that would like to build a little bit more confidence. Every morning before you leave the house take 5 minutes to write down 5 tasks or experiences you would like to achieve that day. Do this every morning for 2 weeks and do your best to complete each… Read More Want Confidence? Take Action
As many of you will know I’m strongly against venting. Going over and over frustrations doesn’t usually help and just leaves you feeling more frustrated or angry by the end. It’s spreading negativity and usually brings down everybody unfortunate enough to get landed listening to you! I’ve even wrote a post on it (Venting, stop… Read More One Off Venting for Clarity
So often we have a good idea or an inclination to do something but we hesitate, we don’t act on it immediately and the moment / opportunity is gone. There is a 5 second window of opportunity to act on an impulse, after that the feeling fades. You have to act fast in the right… Read More Hesitation – Break it for Good / Harness it against Bad
I’ve spent many years studying the art of success, trying to figure out what makes successful people stand out from the rest and though there are many factors that determine whether you will be successful or not the biggest one that I have found, without any doubt, is a consistent positive attitude. Intelligence is obviously… Read More The Importance Of A Positive Attitude To Your Career
After a pretty tough week at work filled with a lot of frustration and challenges I suddenly remembered a post I had written a few years ago on How to Turn Your Mood Around. I think this is a great time to share the key message from that post as a reminder to us all that… Read More Know Your Mood Boosters
When your self-esteem is low you will sabotage your own body image and mind by doing a whole number of the damaging acts like the list below. You may not realise it straight away, which is why I’ve made up this list. Know your warning signs and if you see yourself starting to self-sabotage step… Read More Know the Warning Signs
You may know some people that always play the Ultimate Victim role, many do. The world is always against them, in every situation in their life! They have a hard luck story for everything, even when they’re just back from an amazing holiday … you’ll STILL hear their victim story about the one thing that… Read More Victim Mode … time to get out of it!
If you have ever felt that the challenge to become a better version of you is too great and the fear of failure looms heavy on your horizon then learn to take small steps! In keeping with the phrase ‘Rome wasn’t built in a day’, we have to be patient in our daily quest to… Read More Small Steps, Big Success